get it together .

Now, I'm sure theres girls outchea who have been cheated on, lied to, or played. I've seen it countless times, I've gone through it, it happens. Here's the classic scenario: Boy cheats on Girl A with Girl B. Girl A gets angry at Girl B and takes it up with her. Situations like these make me angry at my fellow female kind. Like seriously honey what is getting mad at the other girl really going to do? Like I said I've been there, and I know how it feels to know that a girl messed with my man knowing that he had a girlfriend. Mostly it hurts my pride and I take it as disrespect. But honestly, you cant act like you dont know that some girls just want what isn't theirs. Some girls dont care whether or not a guy is in a relationship and when you enter a relationship, you should know this. It's a fact. Some girls aint shit. But beefing it up with the other girl will not solve the main problem. 

It seems to me like females will find a way to blame everything but the actual cause of the problem. It takes two to tango and chances are more than likely that the girl did not pin your boyfriend down and rape him. He knows he has a girlfriend when he's out fuckin other bitches, he's not stupid. Girl B will always be the main signal to Girl A that there is something wrong with your relationship. Females act as though getting rid of Girl B will make everything go back to normal when it wont because you did not solve the problem you just got rid of the reminder of the problem. 

I wish there was a simple way to get over insecurities. But sadly there is not, which is why girls continue to get back with boys who hurt them emotionally. They rather the comfort of being in a relationship, no matter how stressful it is, than their happiness and sometimes even their sanity. You need to treat yourself right by being brave and doing what it takes to fix the problem or assessing the value of the relationship and leaving if you feel like it would be the right choice. Get your self together because at the end of the day, you need to look after yourself first.