open ends

There is nothing worse than having open ends with an ex. Open ends meaning that there is still business to be settled between the two of you. Having open ends makes it hard to move on and hard to get over the situation. It is important that at the end of any relationship, you close off everything in a civilized manner. Cursing each other out, unfollowing each other, or deleting phone numbers are just temporary solutions to a problem that will arise again in the future. If you leave a relationship with open ends, do not be surprised when in a couple months they hit you up again, to see if they could work things out with you. It makes complete sense. If you leave giving the other person any reason to still think about you, whether it be because they want an apology,  because they are waiting for you to get over it, or because they have a feeling they will get you back, then they will sooner or later act upon their thoughts. This is just a little food for thought from me though.....